We do not build our lives from start to end. till we reach a certain age when we are able to decide on our future more or less independently our lives are in the hands of our parents.
They choose our kindergartens, they choose schools we go.
Consequently, people surrounding us there and atmosphere there, is not selectable by us. We just accept that as it is and our first impression of the world is created under influence of what our parents have chosen for us.
More importantly, we are much more influenced by initial values that we inherit from our parents. What's important for them is important for us, what's wrong for them is also wrong for us.
In other words, we do not draw a picture of the world by ourselves. Because first artists who do that for us are our parents. They are layers of foundation.
The question is how accurately that foundation was laid. So that it is strong enough to build up a reliable, beautiful and healthy building in future with our own hands.
teachers, neighbors, movies.........
in most of the cases ur society, community u're part of defines who u're and who u'll become... it's not easy to fuck the rules of ur community....cuz u'll be fucked by it sooner or later...unless u're strong enough psychologically and are able to influence or change values of people surroundin u.
They choose our kindergartens, they choose schools we go.
Consequently, people surrounding us there and atmosphere there, is not selectable by us. We just accept that as it is and our first impression of the world is created under influence of what our parents have chosen for us.
More importantly, we are much more influenced by initial values that we inherit from our parents. What's important for them is important for us, what's wrong for them is also wrong for us.
In other words, we do not draw a picture of the world by ourselves. Because first artists who do that for us are our parents. They are layers of foundation.
The question is how accurately that foundation was laid. So that it is strong enough to build up a reliable, beautiful and healthy building in future with our own hands.
teachers, neighbors, movies.........
in most of the cases ur society, community u're part of defines who u're and who u'll become... it's not easy to fuck the rules of ur community....cuz u'll be fucked by it sooner or later...unless u're strong enough psychologically and are able to influence or change values of people surroundin u.